Mental Health Practitioners on Being Your Best Self in 2023
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Hong Kong's Mental Health Practitioners Set their Sights on 2023

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As we’ve begun to settle in to 2023, listing out our goals and wants for the year, it’s important to plan on allocating some time to check in with ourselves while we continue to move forward. The Beat Asia has invited some of Hong Kong’s advocates for mental wellbeing to share their experiences with managing their own mental health, as well as to give some advice that anyone can embrace in their own lives at any time.

Joining us are Stephanie Ng, founder of mental health and body-image empowerment charity Body Banter, alongside clinical hypnotherapist and multi-hyphenate life coach Sonia Samtani. Helping to voice out from the oft-overlooked male perspective in self-care are Cado Lee and Calvin Au Yeung, both ‘Phenomenally Mo’ ambassadors who have represented the group in raising awareness for men’s health during the month of Movember.

Settle into your seat, preferably with something comforting to sip on, and join our roundtable for a dive into the importance of taking good care of yourself from the inside out!

Mental Health

Could you give us some insight on how you began your journey as a mental health and wellness advocate?


Steph Ng (SN): In my early teens, I experienced an eating disorder, and in my recovery journey I began to get curious about a couple of things - how my mind worked, how my mind worked with my body, and how other people experienced mental health and illness. I feel that my experiences with mental illness prompted me to revisit the fundamental things that make us human, like how we connect with one another, why we think, feel, and act the way we do, and what brings us a sense of purpose and meaning.

This is the spirit that I carry into my advocacy work - in everything that I do, I aim to foster curiosity and compassion in the people I work with. My goal is to communicate that there is not a single ‘correct’ way to define health and wellness.

Calvin Au Yeung (CAY): Over the years, I noticed that there are many people around me dealing with tremendous amounts of stress and anxiety. I was always happy to lend my ears and listen and overtime, [and] I realized that I could become a mental health and wellness advocate by setting examples, spreading the word and inspiring people around me to do the same.

Sonia Samtani (SS): My journey began with my own story; in my twenties my happiness was highly dependent on how people viewed me. My need for external validation made me insecure, anxious, and ultimately tired of constantly needing to please. When I reached my limit, I decided to try something new and look inwards instead of outwards, and to self-validate.

I went on a quest to discover, understand, and finally heal my core limiting beliefs, and it made a profound difference to my self-worth and confidence. I then became a mental health advocate for myself and was inspired to spread this awareness to others. I began to learn several modalities of therapy, healing, counselling, and specialized in hypnotherapy.

Cado Lee (CL): I actually don’t remember how I started my journey in mental health and wellness. But being [involved] with the Hong Kong rugby team, we start getting into how we can perform under [a] high pressure situation. And especially since the defeat we had against Korea four years ago in the Olympic qualifier, I started to pay more attention to how I feel before the big game and how I should manage that emotion going into it.

What is the culture of mental health in Hong Kong like?


CAY: The culture of mental health in Hong Kong is not talked about often, and [is] overlooked. Many problems lying underneath the surface are not addressed and many people are still suffering from mental health issues till this day. Even though the awareness and knowledge has been improved over the years, a lot of work still needs to be done.

I am happy that there are companies around such as Phenomenally Pink doing what they’re doing and letting people know the situation not only in Hong Kong but around the world. This allows people who are suffering from these issues to know that they are not alone.

CL: I believe people are more aware of the topic on mental health in recent years. However, I still feel like within the local communities, majorities don’t like to talk about it or seek for help. And it seems a lot of [pressures] are coming from work or the drive of [attaining] success in life.

SN: I think that prior to COVID, many people still believed that mental health problems were a rarity, when in fact 1 in 7 HK adults experience a mental disorder in their lifetime. While the negative impacts of the pandemic on our collective mental health are clearly undesirable and devastating, the fact that more people than ever are experiencing some form of psychological and emotional distress means that more people than ever are recognising how important it is to care for our mental health consistently.

The mental health consequences of COVID are helping more of us recognise that we are never alone when we struggle, and that it is extremely normal to experience fluctuations in our psychological and emotional states. More people than ever now understand that we do not have to wait until we are in a crisis to take active steps to manage our mental health.

SS: The culture in Hong Kong is evolving; when I started two decades ago it was hugely stigmatized and people didn’t see much need or value in focusing on mental health. Now, people have heard the term, they know that mental health is important, and they are beginning to learn what it means to be mentally healthy.

Perhaps we can say that we have birthed the concept of mental health and are now in the infancy stage. There is still much room for the culture to grow in bringing awareness to the local population and have people applying healthy living practices in their daily lives.

How do you deal with stress and anxiety?


CAY: There are 3 things that I do primality to deal with my stress and anxiety. [First,] I communicate and speak to my [loved] ones. I identify the stress and anxiety that I have and voice out. It takes courage to do so, and I encourage you to try.

[Second,] I exercise. After a big session, I feel relieved, and I find out ways to sort out my stress and anxiety during the session.[Lastly,] I meditate. Meditation comes in many forms and for me, I jump into a pool, tub, [or] ocean of icy cold water and I let my mind drift off as I am only focused on my breathing. It helps.

SN: For me and for a lot of people I know, stress and anxiety manifest as physical tension - sometimes, I actually feel the tension build up in my body (as hunched shoulders, clenched jaw, or fidgeting hands) before I become cognitively aware of the fact that I’m feeling stressed. I also find that when I feel most anxious, it feels impossible to intervene at the level of my mind - I very literally cannot ‘think myself out of’ my anxiety.

Dancing helps me release the physical tension I’m holding, and to divert attention away from my swirling anxious thoughts and back into the space of my own body. I find this to be incredibly grounding and centring. I am by no means a pro, and find that dancing is actually far more effective as a stress-relieving activity when I approach it with playfulness and the intention to be silly!

CL: Exercising definitely helps me to sweat out my stress and give me positive vibes to deal with my problem!

SS: I validate my feelings instead of judging or wanting to fix them. If I am anxious, I acknowledge the feeling, allow myself to feel it, and endeavor to understand the thought pattern that’s causing it. Usually, anxiety is the fear of something ‘bad’ happening. What we need at that time is the faith that we can handle what comes our way.

One of the most unhelpful things we can do is tell ourselves not to feel anxious, as if it is already there it’s too late, and will only make us feel worse. After I acknowledge my feelings, I use breathwork to process my uncomfortable feelings so it’s out of my body, then I affirm that “I trust I have the resources to handle things”, and finally visualize my desired outcome in my situation.

Any words of advice for someone going through a rough patch right now?


CAY: Voice out! Speak to your loved ones or your good friends and understand that it is okay to be to feel sad, vulnerable, and broken. That’s the true meaning of being strong.

SN: Reach out. I think that a default that many of us fall back on when we feel frustrated, sad, angry, or lonely is to retreat into our shell. When we are experiencing these negative emotions, we also start to believe that we are these negative emotions - we start to think that we are not interesting to be around, and that people would distance themselves from us if we were to reach out and ask for support. Ironically, it is precisely these self-deprecating beliefs that lead to the isolation we fear, rather than the act of reaching out.

What I know from my own experiences, from others’ stories, and from my research is that social support is a wonderful ‘cushion’ to lean on when we are navigating challenge and adversity in our lives. Reaching out to others in our social circles reminds us that we are not alone and helps us view our problems using different perspectives through conversing with others.

SS: Strength is built when we face and go through rough patches, not when we avoid or resist them. We are supposed to face challenges in our lives to grow.

So, if you are going through something right now, it’s natural, it happens to all of us, and it’s okay that you are feeling challenged. The only thing that’s in the way of moving through it is your fear and your limiting beliefs. You have the resources and strength inside to face what’s there, to deal with the situation, and to come out the other side. Imagine your future self who has come out of this situation in front of you encouraging you like a loving cheerleader, and know that this period has a completion date and a big lesson for you.

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What do new year’s resolutions mean to you?


CAY: [A] New Year Resolution means discipline to me. A new chance to stay on track and commit to what I set out.

SN: I think that goal setting is a wonderful way to achieve the things we aspire for, but a pitfall of the ‘new year’s resolutions’ mindset in my opinion is the idea that there are only special, designated times in our lives when we can enact positive change. In other words, I don’t believe that we need to wait until the new year to set intentions for how we would like to live going forward.

Personally, something that I do think is helpful to do in the new year is to review the moments in the past year that have made me feel alive, invigorated, and connected - the things that have fuelled my fire. Remembering these moments, however big or small, help me hone my attention on things I want to do more of in the year ahead to spark joy and inspiration. For me this year, that’s singing at more open mic night events, spending more time writing creatively, and nurturing important relationships in my life.

CL: New Year’s resolution should be a small change to yourself. Something that is beneficial to you and [that can] build into a good habit. Such as exercising three times a week.

SS: My New Year’s goals are the result of deep reflection, self-acceptance, and making decisions to shift something from a place of wisdom. The resolutions that fail are usually the ones made from self-judgment, or focused on shifting behaviors without understanding why we do them. I use resolutions as an opportunity to check-in with how aligned I am to my actions, and if I’m not, I shift something, or address the resistance to shifting.

I normally write my goals in 7 areas of my life every January: Spiritual, mental, familial, social, financial, vocational and physical. Then I do a manifestation visualization to imagine myself achieving them and let go to my attachment to the form. I have recorded this meditation on my spotify.

What is a self-care habit that we can all introduce in our daily routines in 2023?


CL: Something that I do daily is to write down three good things that I encounter in the day that make me feel joy or [are] giving me a positive vibe. And by end of the week or month, I can see all the joys and positives that I accumulate during that time.

SN: I always like to emphasise that a self-care routine or habit doesn’t have to be time-consuming or super fancy. In my opinion, a good self-care habit is one that is consistent, nourishing, and not for show.

By consistent, I mean that it shouldn’t feel like a chore to practice this habit daily. There are enough things in our lives that we feel we ‘should’ do - cut yourself some slack here.

By nourishing, I mean: stop trying to be productive just for a moment. Challenge the voices in your head telling you that your self-care habit exists to help you ‘improve’ in a measurable way. Instead, choose whatever feels fun and refreshing for you.

By not for show, I mean: you are accountable to no one but yourself for what you pick as your self-care habit. Connecting back to the previous point of finding a habit that feels nourishing, remember that what feels good to you is inherently subjective and that is 100% okay.

SS: The most caring thing we can do for ourselves is reduce self-judgment and increase self-acceptance. A great habit is to be intentional about your day; wake up feeling grounded, and sleep with closure. I normally do breathwork and a grounding meditation in the morning. At night just before I sleep, I review my day to digest what happened and let go of suppressed emotions, then say some affirmations.

CAY: Exercise for at least 30 minutes every day!

What changes do you hope to see in the landscape of mental health and wellness in the future?


SN: The biggest change I would like to see is acceptance of diversity. The most common theme I see in wellness-related messaging is a ‘one-size-fits-all’ mentality. In reality, our minds and bodies do not fit into a template - what makes one person feel amazing may wreak havoc on someone else, and the time each of us takes to heal and to process challenges differ depending on unique individual and environmental factors.

Knowing that some people take a month and others take a year to experience a reduction in symptoms feels scary because this makes us feel like there is no end in sight to our pain and struggle. But I think that this realisation - of the uniqueness of our experiences - is also very comforting, because we begin to invest in processes, rather than destinations in our lives. Instead of seeing our mental health as a series of tangible goals that we ‘should’ reach, we start seeing investing in our mental health as a journey that we get to explore and venture through.

CL: Most important thing for me is acknowledging how [I] truly [feel]. Not everyone is the same when [it] comes to dealing with emotions. As long as you find your own way, then that's all [that] matters.

SS: The biggest one is to keep reducing the stigma of mental health.

I would love to see more people give importance to their mental health by incorporating practices of meditation, self-reflection, emotional balancing, and generally be more accepting of themselves and others. I would hope that people have access to mental health practitioners, and that they know where to go and what to do, and can find something within their budget.
If people developed a just few healthy beliefs, it would bring a profound shift to their state of mind, their behaviors and their life. I would love people to understand the power they have in changing their belief systems, and operate from a place of self-awareness.

CAY: I hope that all people will take mental health issues more seriously. Keep raising awareness and spreading the word.

What’s in store for you in the year ahead?


CAY: Continue to become a better version of myself!

SN: In the year ahead, I am excited to work with more local communities - schools, NGOs, and other organisations . My favourite thing about researching and working within the mental health space is that the mental health landscape is constantly evolving, changing at the speed of our amazing human stories.

I am looking forward to growing the Body Banter community - bringing in more youth ambassadors into our programming and holding more events in collaboration with other purpose-driven organisations. I am also beginning to offer workshops surrounding body image, mental health, and the power of sharing our lived-experience stories, so if you’re interested in shedding light on these issues within your community, reach out to me on my Instagram, or on my website!

SS: I intend to keep working on my mission to transform global consciousness by working with the human mind so that we realize we have the ability to choose, the awareness to accept, and the power to make peace with what life brings to us.

I would love to continue destigmatising mental health, and all the residual limiting beliefs and stigma attached to working on your inner-self. I am also planning to launch a podcast, create a global audience for my signature program “be you own master”, and create a charitable foundation this year.

Stay connected and keep up with:

Steph at her website here, or on Instagram

Sonia at her website here, or book a session at All About You Centre here

Cado and Calvin’s work with Phenomenally Pink/Mo at their website, or on Instagram

The above interview responses have been edited for length and clarity.

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Yuletide Season in HK: Cheap Christmas Activities to Try This 2024

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Are you looking for ways to make the most of Christmas in Hong Kong without emptying your wallet? With the holiday spirit alive and well in the city, there are plenty of ways to enjoy the season without spending too much. From twinkling lights to fun Christmas markets, you can enjoy the sounds of holiday songs, savor festive food, and find unique Christmas gifts.

Here are eight activities you can do this Christmas season in Hong Kong, all on a budget.

Stroll Through Christmas Displays

Hong Kong’s streets are decked out in blinking Christmas lights, and the best part is, you can enjoy most of them for free. Take a casual walk through areas like Avenue of Stars and Central Harbourfront, and let the festive lights brighten your day. These spots are perfect for snapping a few pictures with your family or friends or just soaking in the holiday ambiance.

Take a Walk Through Hong Kong Park

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If you’re looking for a peaceful way to enjoy the Christmas season without spending anything, Hong Kong Park is the place to be. While it doesn’t have flashy holiday displays, the park’s eye-catching greenery and calm atmosphere make it a great spot to unwind during the cooler months. Bring a thermos of hot cocoa, wander along the scenic paths, or simply sit on a bench and soak in the holiday spirit with your family and friends.

Explore Christmas Town in Kowloon

If you’re looking for a place to soak in some Christmas wonder without spending a dime, head to Christmas Town in Kowloon. The towering Christmas tree and festive displays make this area a must-see. The event runs until Jan. 1, 2025, offering plenty of time to experience the holiday magic. Make sure to bring your kids, as they’ll love meeting Santa Claus, taking photos, and soaking in the festive atmosphere.

Visit WestK Christmas Market at Art Park

For a festive outing with a mix of international flavors and Christmas gifts, the WestK Christmas Market is a great option. Open at the Harbourside Mid Lawn of the Art Park, this market runs until Dec. 29 and features six specialty booths alongside more than 30 additional booths offering festive food and unique Christmas gifts. It’s a laid-back and affordable way to spend time with loved ones while discovering new and fun seasonal treats.

Experience A Furry Christmas Wonderland at Central Market

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For a magical Christmas experience with a furry twist, head to Central Market, where beloved characters like Lucifer from “Cinderella," the Dalmatian family from “101 Dalmatians,” and Marie from “The Aristocrats” come to life for the first time in Hong Kong. Snap photos with these classic characters and enjoy over 20 pet-themed activities that are perfect for creating memories with your pets.

Relax at Victoria Park

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Located in the heart of Causeway Bay, Victoria Park offers a peaceful escape from the bustling city. During the Christmas season, the park is full of residents enjoying the weather and spending time outdoors. Sure, there are not a lot of Christmas displays here, but the festive spirit is palpable as families gather and people engage in leisurely activities.

Join the Noir Gold Christmas Soiree at Stanley Plaza

Get into the festive spirit with Stanley Plaza’s ninth annual Noir Gold Christmas Soiree, happening from Dec. 21 to 26. This year’s elegant black-and-gold theme is the perfect backdrop for over 120 stalls featuring a mix of new and beloved brands, including Macau’s DIGREEN ice cream and local favorites like Wun Kee’s eggrolls. Don’t miss the Winter Rendezvous with Ramon Christmas Bazaar at Murray House, where you can enjoy gourmet treats, fun games, and a charity sale benefiting the Little Life Warriors Society.

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Would You Join This Inclusive Fitness Challenge? What to Know about Hyrox

How Hyrox Redefines Fitness in HK

The recently concluded Hyrox Hong Kong race — held last Nov. 23 to 24 2024 at the AsiaWorld Expo — brought out the best of the best in the city’s fitness community. Of course, “the best of the best” didn’t just include elite athletes, it also encompassed those with a passion for health and wellness.

Priding itself on inclusivity, Hyrox Hong Kong welcomed 6,500 participants over the course of two days for a challenging yet invigorating race that included a 1-kilometer run and various fitness stations.

“Hyrox events follow a consistent format across all competitions, ensuring fairness and compatibility,” shared Hyrox APAC Managing Director Gary Wan. “Each event consists of a one-kilometer run followed by a functional workout station, repeated eight times. The workout stations include exercises such as SkiErg, sled push, sled pull, burpee broad jumps, rowing, farmers carry, sandbag lunges, and wall balls. The consistent race format enables global leaderboards and a cumulative World Championships at the end of each race season.”

Founded in Germany in 2017 by Christian Toetzke and Moritz Fürste, Hyrox has since seen an exponential growth in popularity. This year alone, global events attracted a combined total of over 210,000 participants.

In Hong Kong, 6,500 participants hit the course, representing a threefold increase from our previous event in 2023,” Gary noted. “The atmosphere was electric, as competitors from diverse backgrounds came together to push their limits and celebrate the spirit of fitness.”

Those who missed the 2024 edition needn’t fear as the Hyrox 2025 lineup has already been announced. They begin with a Manchester race in January and will be followed up by events in Las Vegas, Guadalajara, Bilbao, and Rotterdam in February.

Hyrox also aims to bring the popular sports event to major Asian cities within the next two years. “Hyrox is already in Hong Kong, Singapore, Taipei, Beijing, and Incheon with Tokyo and Bangkok races planned for 2025,” he revealed. “There is hope of increasing from 150 to 170 [events] worldwide and engaging a million participants annually.”

Hyrox is an inclusive fitness event
Hyrox is an inclusive fitness event | Instagram/Hyrox HK

But what exactly makes Hyrox so popular despite its physical demands? Aside from the convenience of holding the race indoors (and thereby unaffected by weather), Hyrox has also been tailored to include as many participants as possible.

“What sets HYROX apart is its inclusivity; participants of all fitness levels can take part, with categories tailored to different ambitions,” Gary shared. Hyrox divisions include Pro Women’s/Men’s, Open Women’s/Men’s, Doubles Women’s/Men’s/Mixed, Doubles Pro Women’s/Men’s, and a Relay Women’s Men’s Mixed Division.

Hyrox challenges a person's overall fitness profile
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Hyrox races also challenge a person’s overall fitness profile, focusing on a well-rounded fitness profile. Challenges are made to test a person’s strength, endurance, speed, and mental toughness, without discrimination for one or the other.

The fact that Hyrox is present in multiple cities globally also fosters a community for participants, making it a fun challenge that is relatable on a global scale. “Our global presence has fostered a vibrant and supportive community, where participants often praise the camaraderie and encouragement experienced at events,” noted Gary.

A fitness enthusiast himself, Gary observed that training in a community fosters motivation and social connection, “Participants also benefit from the collective knowledge and experience of others, which can lead to improved techniques and strategies.”

The Hyrox race gives people a sense of fulfillment
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Ultimately, Gary believes that Hyrox events provide people with a sense of accomplishment and personal growth. Overcoming the rigors of this popular indoor race can definitely give a participant a sense of fulfillment — which, Gary believes, is ultimately why people have been flocking to sign up.

To know more about Hyrox, visit their website and follow them on Instagram.

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Mind HK Launches 'Unseen Struggles' Fundraising Campaign for Mental Health

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Local mental health charity Mind HK is raising funds to expand Improving Access to Community Therapies (iACT) program, launched in 2022, offering free, professional one-on-one psychological support to those struggling with mild to moderate depression or anxiety.

With public mental health services facing waits of up to two years, iACT provides timely, evidence-based care for those in need.

The Unseen Struggles campaign, running through December, shares stories from eight individuals who’ve faced mental health challenges, shedding light on their experiences to inspire understanding and support.

One of the participants in the campaign includes Yvette Kong, an Olympic swimmer and lululemon mental well-being global advisory board member. The goal currently stands to raise HK$400,000, which will provide over 165 free therapy sessions.

iACT’s impact is clear: between Sept. 2023 and April 2024, over 70% of participants reported significant improvement, and nearly 65% with severe symptoms recovered after two or more sessions.

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Donating HK$375 can cover the cost of one therapy session for someone in need. Contributions over HK$500 come with a festive card by artist Erin Hung. Additionally, lululemon will match donations for the “Unseen Struggles campaign, enabling donors to double their impact during the campaign’s second week.

Help make a difference by donating via the Mind HK fundraising page on Give Asia.

For updates and more information, visit Mind HK on their website, or follow them on Instagram, Facebook, and X (Formerly Twitter).

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Sophia Hotung Shines Light on Invisible Disabilities at TEDxTinHau Women

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Writer and illustrator Sophia Hotung is a familiar face in Hong Kong through her dedicated work raising awareness for people suffering from invisible disabilities and chronic illnesses.

Sophia was a typical brace-wearing, glasses-toting teen, until her health took a hit at 16 when she was diagnosed with autoimmune hepatitis. The illness pulled her out of school for a year, and she later got diagnosed with seven chronic illnesses, including celiac disease, which often left her feeling isolated in a city where gluten-free dining is a challenge.

Today, she advocates for people suffering from invisible disabilities and chronic illnesses, selling her artworks to raise funds for affiliated charities and giving talks in the community and schools.

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Despite her health struggles, Sophia is a prolific writer and illustrator. She has published her fourth book, “The (Unlikely) Hong Konger,” just in time for Christmas.

This is the fourth in her “The Hong Konger” series of eye-popping prints which examine the city’s unique melting pot of international and local scenes through a satirical, celebratory lens, while parodying The New Yorker magazine covers.

"The (Unlikely) Hong Konger" includes Sophia Hotung’s original collection of 100 artworks from "The Hong Konger," along with 12 exclusive previously unseen pieces. Part narrative about her life, part artwork, this compilation showcases the quintessential yet often overlooked scenes of Hong Kong.

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At TEDxTinHau Women 2024 this year, Sophia will be sharing the stage with Jessica Chan, an advocate for gender and disability equality who was born with Achondroplasia, a form of dwarfism, for a joint talk on invisible and visible disabilities, in relation to this year's theme: “In Motion.”

Sophia sat down with The Beat Asia to share what we can look forward to at her upcoming TEDx talk, the challenges of living with an invisible illness, and the exciting release of her new book.

You will be sharing the stage with Jessica Chan, who has a visible disability. What topics will you be touching on in your talk with her?

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Jessica and I didn't want to be seen as a monolith, but at the same time, this is an opportunity to flag that the disabled community is very diverse. Jessica looks visibly different – but she’s a major player in her company, does HYROX, and just came back from an extreme surfing holiday.

Meanwhile, I look like I can work out, and look pretty normal, but if I'm walking around for a day, I need three days to recover from that.

Jessica and I also differ in our choice of language. She prefers the term “differently abled” to disabled, and I prefer "disabled" because I feel very disabled.

The main idea that we've discussed for this TEDx talk “In Motion” is the idea of progress; developing new ways of pushing forward an inclusive disability agenda, especially in Hong Kong, as it has some backward and prescriptive views still. There is a lot of awkwardness or uncertainty about how we go about talking to disabled people.

So, we've got a few takeaways on what we would recommend in this talk. Not necessarily blanket advice because everyone's different, but something that I think can apply to most cases.

What falls under this umbrella of invisible disabilities?

It's really hard to put things in boxes because there are so many different diagnoses. But [an invisible] disability is any health condition that makes getting through an average day harder but is not apparent. Autism is a good example, or lupus.

That said, I like to leave a label more up to the individual. It's really no one's job to force someone into coming out as disabled. It’s a process that everyone has to take in their own stride.

What can members of the public do to support people with invisible disabilities?

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I really think that language is an easy fix. When you see someone with a disability, your immediate response doesn’t have to be pity, patronization, or pandering.

You don't need to sugar coat it, or be super optimistic, but you also don't need to be miserable about it. We just get on with our days and see it as any other neutral part of our identities.

So a big push in the talk is just this idea of see, disability is neutral and that will change a lot about [working to be more] inclusive.

What role does art play in your life and as you deal with the challenges of your illnesses?

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My first art collection, "The Hong Konger" started as a joke because I was bored in bed. There were no cures and I couldn't go back to work, so I was drawing to pass the time.

I've been through the Hong Kong school system – it’s very competitive academically and to finally have something that had no compass, rubric, or grading system [finding a creative outlet] was very refreshing after so many years of exams.

When you keep doing repetitive movements and find yourself slowly getting better, [having] things in your head that you can produce with your hands [offers] a real feeling of control and satisfaction, especially at a time where I felt like I had no control over what my life would become. That was very powerful.

It doesn’t have to be art that you express yourself through, but any hobby can be very helpful, especially when you're dealing with a new limitation that feels like it's the end of the world.

Can you share more about your company Pangolin Society with us?

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From day one, when I started making art, people were asking for free art, and I was burning through the money I had made in my last job. I had charities asking for free stuff, so I tried to come up with a way where I could make art, but both charities and I could profit from it.

I teamed up with this charity called Equal Justice Hong Kong, which provides legal support to people who normally can’t afford it. I made them three artworks, and we agreed to split any profit 50/50. This would compensate me for labor and resources, but the charity also got 50% of the sales, and they have ownership rights to the art, which means they can put the images on a tote bag, put it on a mug, etc.

Pangolin’s mission is to find strategic ways to fundraise that is profitable for all parties. I haven't perfected this yet, but I do think there is a model here for a way of working with charities that is sustainable for artists.

The (Unlikely) Hong Konger is a beautiful book combining narrative with illustrations. How did you come up with the concept?

The Unlikely Hong Konger
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It’s about growing up in Hong Kong, and how my accidental art career spawned, that’s what gives it the name: "The (Unlikely) Hong Konger."

The history of Hong Kong has played out in an unlikely way. Everyone thought Hong Kong was never going to be a functional city, because there’s no water on the island, there’s no arable land, and yet, here we are.

This theme runs through the book, whether it's related to work, illness or Hong Kong itself. This idea of the art industry and COVID-19 pops up in there as well, and how people dealt with it in different ways.

The overall message of the book is that things never go according to plan, but there's a way to handle the punches.

If you look only on the right side [recto] of [its spread], it's an arty coffee table book. It has all the Hong Kongers and a few extra ones that I threw, but if you look on the left side [verso], its dramatized and reads like a novel. But it's the true story of how I started being really sick.

What advice would give young people who are exploring a career in art?

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Even if you are embarrassed to put your art out there, you should still make it, because it can always come out later when you're an adult and you’ve gotten over the embarrassment. It’s cool, productive, and it's all part of the journey.

Catch Sophia Hotung at TEDxTinHau Women on Friday, Dec. 6, 2024 at Xiqu Centre in West Kowloon and at her book signing of The (Unlikely) Hong Konger on Dec. 7 at Kelly & Walsh in Pacific Place.

Stay connected with Sophia on her website, and follow her on Instagram, or Facebook. For more information, visit TEDxTinHau Women 2024 on their website, Facebook, and Instagram.

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COMFELIE Pop-Up Brings a Splash of Comfort and Confidence to Hong Kong

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Hong Kong embraced comfort and empowerment at the COMFELIE Pop-Up Event, where the bra brand celebrated its mission of revolutionizing wireless lingerie while raising awareness for breast health.

Known for their seamless bras, COMFELIE crafted a unique experience where fashion, function, and purpose intertwined, and our wardrobe and well-being thanked us for it!

For three days from Nov. 22 to Nov. 24, 2024, guests were invited to enjoy 50% off bras in-store, and take part in lively activities including yoga sessions, crafty sessions, live music parties, and more, all under one roof.

Partnering with the Phenomenally Pink Breast Cancer non-profit organization, COMFELIE dedicated a portion of event proceeds to support vital breast health initiatives.

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The pop-up event, which took place at Hilltop Plaza in the heart of Soho, featured the Women Connect Comfelie Talk, a powerful panel discussion led by inspiring women such as entrepreneur Teodora Lazarova, dancer and artist Anisha Thai, breast cancer survivor Eugeniya Menassa, and hosted by the talented makeup artist Joy Kawuma. They covered topics such as beauty, empowerment, and diversity.

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And because COMFELIE knows how to spoil us, the brand has introduced a buzz-worthy deal: spend HK$100 and receive a FREE HK$129 four-piece gift set, including a branded umbrella, makeup pouch, and more. Who says self-care can’t come with perks? Make sure to hurry, though, cause this promo is only until supplies last!

The brand is a godsend to women's comfort and well-being. the brand continues to tackle common challenges in lingerie, such as underwire discomfort, with innovative solutions. Designed by women for women, COMFELIE’s bras combine 43% spandex for incredible elasticity and softness, delivering a second-skin fit that supports long-term breast health without compromising style.

Missed it? Don’t worry — you can still explore their collection online and bring a little everyday luxury into your life.

To find out more, visit COMFELIE on their website, or follow them on Instagram and Facebook.

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How to Unlock Your Intuition According to Psychic Christina Ko

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Hong Kong is best known for its neon signages, dim sum, and of course, Disneyland. But for those who call the city home, Hong Kong is much more than that. It is an amalgamation of memories, a cacophony of sights, sounds, tastes, and noises.

Amidst the organized chaos, Christina Ko, a local writer, psychic, and wellness advocate, finds life spread throughout years’ worth of memories.

“For me, Hong Kong was about growing up eating Sunday dim sum with extended family, holding the latest ‘Old Master Q’ comic that my mom would buy to keep us kids occupied throughout the meal,” she recalled.

It was about teenage years spent roaming Causeway Bay sipping on bubble tea, playing Puzzle Bobble in smoky arcades, and learning Cantonese at “Lunch K” [lunchtime karaoke] sessions. “Back then, we knew which bars in Lan Kwai Fong didn’t check for IDs, and my best friend and I spent afternoons buying broken heart necklaces at the underground mall in Sugar Street,” Christina added.

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A portrait of Christina Ko | Courtesy of Christina Ko

Today, her love for the city is further underlined by the launch of her self-made oracle deck, Mali Mali Home, which is available at her spiritual space, Good Peoples.

A useful guide in life, oracle decks such as Christina’s can be used as a tool for decision-making or grounding.

“[Oracle decks] are a form of solace, a sense of direction, a trigger for creativity. You draw a card, and it gives you advice, inspiration, or maybe even a kick in the ass (that you probably needed at the time),” she shared.

Alongside creative meditation, breathwork, readings, and workshops, Good Peoples offers this tributary oracle deck to those seeking clarity via Hong Kong’s nuanced lifestyle. In fact, the name “Mali Mali” is inspired by the playful Hong Kong phrase that parallels magic’s “Abracadabra."

“The phrase itself doesn’t have a written form but is familiar when said,” Christina explained. “When I looked into it, some sources suggested that it was an adaptation or bastardization of the Buddhist chant, ‘Om Mani Padme Hum,' which we can repeat as a form of purification or connection to our inner selves.”

The Mali Mali Home Deck
The Mali Mali Home oracle deck | Courtesy of Christina Ko

Consisting of 33 cards, Mali Mali Home invites locals and foreigners to explore their life paths through city scenes. From polaroid images of Hong Kong’s minibuses and milk tea, Mali Mali Home delivers energy that inspires, soothes, and invigorates. Its only irony comes from how it was birthed. “I first came up with the idea of Mali Mali Home when Hong Kong was at its lowest,” Christina admitted, recalling the pandemic and the year before. At the time, people had shuttered themselves in at home and were ultimately fearful of the future. “We were wondering if we would die of a disease we thought we’d already conquered [SARS in 2002],” she recalled.

But despite the circumstances, Christina affirmed that Mali Mali Home is a testament to hope, “Hope that a bauhinia flower on a tree could remind us to bloom, that the sight of an illegally built rooftop awning might encourage us to take a little risk, or that a plate of rice rolls would allow us to create our own bold flavors."

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Chinese Medicine card from Mali Mali Home | Courtesy of Christina Ko

Since then, Mali Mali Home has inspired many among the psychic's inner circle – and is used by Christina herself during her readings for other people. A keen observer of everyday life, Christina had formerly worked as an editor for a luxury magazine.

When you interview and write about people for as long as I have, you can’t help but be fascinated by the human psyche,” she mused. "And when you interview celebrities, you can get as little as four minutes to get to know them before you write about them – so you try to read them intuitively, from how they walk into the room to how they chew a sandwich. From there, I started getting readings for myself – astrology, Bazi, numerology, Akashic records. And then, one Sunday morning last year, after a retreat, I woke up, and [realized] I was psychic.”

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A portrait of Christina Ko | Courtesy of Christina Ko

Since honing her intuitive gifts – which she maintains is a gift given to all humans – Christina has learned a lesson or two.

One, that intuition entails both trust and forgiveness. “I spent so many years as the vaunted editor of a luxury magazine and held myself to such high standards that I could never allow myself to be wrong, to be out of control, or to be truly free,” she recalled. But on the day she told herself those magic words – “I forgive myself” – Christina realized she was able to access her intuition, her imagination, and her connection to the world around her.

Intuition is never wrong, but it plays a long game. So you may think you’re wrong, that you’re a fool for believing something, but one later down the line, you will understand that your intuition was leading you somewhere you didn’t know yet.”

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Mali Mali Home comes with a guidebook to help interpret the cards | Courtesy of Christina Ko

Christina also imparted that despite the misconception of “psychic powers," humans aren’t necessarily meant to know the future in great detail.

“Anything that we see [through oracle or tarot readings] represents the most likely reality based on all of the intentions, decisions, and circumstances of right now. And the reason that this reality is being presented to you in a reading is so that you can decide if that’s what you want. And if you don’t, you simply set your intention to change course, and it is done. Ultimately, I believe in free will, and I encourage my customers to as well,” she said.

Now, as Christina continues to grow the community of Good Peoples, she’s letting her intuition lead the way.

“I’m a one-person business and I’m also about to launch a new channeled energy healing session that works through the chakras to clear emotional blockages and physical issues,” she revealed.

“Ultimately, everything I do at Good Peoples is held together by the twin themes of wellness and creativity. So whatever comes out of 2025, it will be fresh, new, wild, and fun – because my perspective is that life and healing should be a good time," Christina concluded.

Avail of the Mali Mali Home oracle deck through the Good Peoples website. To learn more, you may also visit their Instagram.

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Hong Kong Parents Prefer Closer Uni's Over Study Abroad, HSBC Report Shows

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Hong Kong parents are increasingly choosing nearby universities in Asia over further abroad options, according to a recent HSBC report.

In a recent HSBC Global Quality of Life report, it was found that 64% of parents are now prioritizing universities closer to their home base in Hong Kong, with emerging destinations like Mainland China, Japan, and Malaysia gaining popularity. This trend reflects a growing desire among parents for easier access to their children while studying, with minimal time differences and shorter flights being key factors.

In particular, younger Gen Z and Millennial parents show a marked preference for institutions in or near their home region. Specifically, 72% of Gen Z parents and 66% of Millennials favor local universities, allowing for closer contact during their children’s educational journey.

There are currently around 35,000 Hong Kong students studying abroad, as Renee Yung, Head of Customer Propositions at HSBC, points out in the report. The majority of Hong Kong parents will pay for their children to study abroad, while parents who plan to send their children overseas for further studies can expect to spend HK$580,000 a year.

Interestingly, the HSBC report notes that younger Hong Kong parents are becoming more inclined to invest in their children's early education overseas, such as boarding schools. Meanwhile, 73% of Gen Z parents are ready to pay extra for universities that provide travel and exchange programs, reflecting a 14% rise from their Gen X counterparts.

Hong Kong parents are also increasingly prioritizing their children’s well-being while studying abroad, says the HSBC survey. 74% of parents favor universities that cater to their children’s needs and aspirations. Millennial parents are 8% more open to entrepreneurial-focused education in comparison to Baby Boomers.

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However, many Hong Kong parents cited study abroad expenses as a major worry, including concerns about overseas banking services and the risk of financial scams, highlighting the critical need for financial planning in advance.

HSBC Premier offers a range of tailored services to support Hong Kong parents and their children as they navigate these educational choices. These supports include assistance with pre-departure international bank account opening, multi-currency HSBC Mastercard Debit Cards, educational programs designed for the next generation, and fee-free global transfer on mobile 24/7.

For more information about the services HSBC offers to international students, click here.

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