Still Not Okay (I Promise): Emo Night Manila Keeps Emo Alive

It’s 2025, and nothing still beats screaming “I’m Not Okay (I Promise)” at the top of your lungs. If there’s anything that can beat that singular experience, it's sharing it with strangers who feel exactly the same way.
Last June 14, deep inside Taguig City, a crowd of millennials and Gen Zs gathered to celebrate Emo Night Manila’s 2nd anniversary.
The gates of McKinley Whiskey Park opened exactly at 9 PM, and all of a sudden, the open-air venue was covered in a sea of black tees, fishnets, battered Vans, and perfectly chipped nail polish manicures. Some had Hot Topic Fall Out Boy shirts; others arrived in full Gerard Way regalia, their black suit and red tie combos taking us all the way back. And don't worry, not one attendee forgot to come in black eyeliner, eager to prove that emo isn’t just a phase.

After all, it’s been about 20 years since the release of My Chemical Romance’s iconic songs, and yet, we still found ourselves belting out the lines like it was just yesterday. And while older millennials have sworn off the studded belts and side-swept fringes, Emo Night Manila gave everybody the permission to return to those simpler times and rock those fits again. If we’re being honest, however, it felt less like coming back to our “emo phase” and more of an overdue acknowledgement that while our clothes have changed, our feelings towards emo have never actually retired.
As The New York Times once wrote, emo is “punk that wears its heart on its sleeve and tries a little tenderness to leaven its sonic attack.” That night, that tenderness was in full display, tattooed – some literally – over our hearts, ready to swing back bigger than ever.
Pre-Show Vibes
Lines began long before 9 PM, as everyone was eager to enter the venue as soon as possible. And for good reason, the first 30 people who got in were rewarded with free Vans tote bags, while the next 170 snagged P500 vouchers!
Inside, people were already browsing through the Nine Lives Tattoo & Piercing pop-up’s catalog, lured in by the “Buy One, Take One” deal on ear piercings for only P1,500 that night. Nothing is more punk than a good deal and supporting local businesses – plus the fact that your parents aren’t around to say something about your second lobe stud.


Emo Night Manila merch was also available for grabs: limited-run t-shirts, caps, and totes for those who wanted to immortalize the night with wearable souvenirs.
Across the faux grass and sea of tables was a Charles & James Whisky booth serving no-nonsense highballs: Ginger Ale Whisky & a straightforward Whiskey & Coke mix. Were they boundary-pushing mixology creations? Nope. But were they exactly what you needed before screaming to iconic emo hits? Absolutely.
As the lawn filled up, everyone quietly milled around with their drinks, settled into their tattoo seat for a session, or found their spot in the grass. The DJs continued to spin not-so-forgotten hits as millennials dusted off their 2004 angst, while Gen Zs emerged ready to emote after last week’s breakup. Still, everyone agrees: we can feel our feelings here – and shout it out to the universe.
Deep Cuts, Mashups, and Chicosci
A rotating roster of DJs started off the night with an emo time capsule, serving a setlist that had everyone mouthing lyrics to songs they hadn’t heard since Multiply was a thing.
Then came the interesting mashups – equal parts cursed and genius – that got everyone hyped. A Paramore x Chappell Roan mashup mixing “Still Into You” and “HOT TO GO!” was an unexpected combo that worked out perfectly. Soon after, the DJ played a Paramore x TWICE mashup, putting together the background music of “Brick by Boring Brick” with the vocals of “What is Love?”
Cross-genre music has never sounded so good, and everybody was all for it. Those who know would know that punk, at its core, is about self-expression, accepting individuality while rejecting intolerance. While Chappell Roan’s songs are pop, her camp aesthetic and attitude reject societal norms for what a young girl in pop should look like and how they should act. And while TWICE is a huge K-Pop girl group, K-Pop still gets its share of judgment as a genre that is lyrically foreign for the most part. True emo kids accepted these mashups with open arms, pushing forward the inclusive ethos of the genre.

Around 11:30 PM, Chicosci stormed the stage to the squeal of feedback and a sea of black tees crowding the lawn near the stage. The veteran emo/pop-punk/rock band knows their audience well, and as the crowd yearned for the full-blown, eyeliner-smeared homage to the iconic epitome of emo, My Chemical Romance, they obliged. The crowd screamed and sang out loud to “I’m Not Okay (I Promise),” “Teenagers,” and “Helena.”
Chicosci also slipped in their own classic hits, such as “A Promise,” triggering an instant response from the crowd as it reminded us that the Philippines has plenty of home-grown emo hits to shout to.
By the time their set ended an hour later, the crowd’s energy barely wavered, and the DJs returned to deliver hit after hit. It was like playing a “Greatest Hits” playlist without slowing down, serving hits from Fall Out Boy, Paramore, All American Rejects, Blink 182, Green Day, Linkin Park, Simple Plan, Panic! At The Disco, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, and more.
The night wasn’t young, and the crowd wasn’t full of emo teenagers anymore, but it sure felt like the event could stretch forever, and our backs weren’t hurting.


Emo Night Manila
Detractors love to mock emo as just teenage angst that couldn’t quite reach the hardcore nature of metal. But the subculture refuses to be pushed underground, and emo was never just about the age- and it most certainly was not just a phase! It’s about sharing your emotions out loud, vulnerability amplified through speakers, practically culminating in group therapy as you look around and realize that others feel the same way. No matter how sad, lost, and confused you may feel, you are never alone.
While screaming/singing out loud until your throat hurts may not solve your problems, Emo Night Manila served as a safe, judgment-free space where you don’t have to keep it bottled up inside. And if this second anniversary is any indication, then we’ll find ourselves back here next year, screaming with lined eyes and distressed skinny jeans, and very much okay with not being okay.
Keep an eye out for Emo Night Manila's future happenings. Check out their website and follow them on Facebook and Instagram.

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